BDSM tasks for couples

She is bent over the desk, still in her skirt, and she whispers that she does not want to be heard. Play it that way: no moaning allowed, only breath and whispers. Push the skirt up slowly, kiss the backs of her knees, work up the inside of her thighs with your tongue and stop every time a sound escapes her. Whisper into the back of her neck: "One more sound and I start over from your knees." Keep the desk lamp as the only light on her skin.

Straight into motion: climb over him while he is still sitting on the edge of the bed, push his shoulders down onto the mattress and take charge of the room. Give short flat commands and make him repeat each one back: "hands above your head", "knees apart", "don't move". Use a soft belt looped once around his wrists, not tight, so one pull frees him. Then trace your nails down his ribs slowly, and every time he obeys without a sound, reward him with your open mouth on his hipbone. Set the stop word first.

Wrap an ice cube from the kitchen in a thin cloth and keep it hidden in your fist. Kneel over him, kiss his mouth deep and hot, and while he's lost in it, press the cold through the cloth against one nipple. Alternate: hot open-mouth kisses on his chest, then cold on the other side. When his breathing goes ragged, close your teeth on the edge of his shoulder just hard enough to sting, then lick over the spot. Finish with your tongue circling each nipple while the melted water runs down his ribs.

Pin her wrists above her head with one hand and tell her, out loud and inches from her mouth, exactly what you plan to do to her tonight, word by word, without breaking eye contact. Make her repeat back the filthiest part in her own voice. Agree on a stop word first. Keep your mouth so close that every sentence lands on her lips, and only after the last one let your hand slide down her belly, slow, still talking.