BDSM tasks for couples

Drag the full-length mirror next to the bed and leave the lights on bright. Sit her in front of it, back against your chest, her legs open over yours, and make her keep her eyes on the glass. Talk her through it: "Look at what my hands are doing." Run your palms up her stomach, cup her breasts, pinch her nipples between thumb and finger just hard enough to make her jump, then stroke her ribs soft again. Any time she closes her eyes or turns away, take your hands off her completely and wait. Keep going until she watches her own hips lift on their own in the reflection.

She is bent over the desk, still in her skirt, and she whispers that she does not want to be heard. Play it that way: no moaning allowed, only breath and whispers. Push the skirt up slowly, kiss the backs of her knees, work up the inside of her thighs with your tongue and stop every time a sound escapes her. Whisper into the back of her neck: "One more sound and I start over from your knees." Keep the desk lamp as the only light on her skin.

His stomach tightens the second the phone timer starts: ten minutes, and he can't touch you back. Straddle him and trail wet kisses down his belly to the line of his groin, stopping just short. If his hands move, restart the timer. Safeword: "red".

Straight into motion: climb over him while he is still sitting on the edge of the bed, push his shoulders down onto the mattress and take charge of the room. Give short flat commands and make him repeat each one back: "hands above your head", "knees apart", "don't move". Use a soft belt looped once around his wrists, not tight, so one pull frees him. Then trace your nails down his ribs slowly, and every time he obeys without a sound, reward him with your open mouth on his hipbone. Set the stop word first.